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What is informed consent, and what does it mean for your pregnancy and birth?

Informed consent is one of those phrases that is becoming a signature phrase in birth circles. You might have read in a blog or on a Facebook post something like, “We support informed consent,” or “Every woman has the right to informed consent.” But what does that really mean and why is it important to pregnant an birthing women? Informed consent is the concept that a patient has the right to be fully informed of the benefits and risks of any medical procedure or intervention, as well as the alternatives to the procedure prior to agreeing to undergo the procedure.The doctor in charge of the patient’s care would take the time to explain these things to the patient prior to obtaining  her consent. It also means that, if consent is later withdrawn to an agreed upon procedure, the medical staff will cease treatment. Informed consent is the right of every patient being treated medically, including prenatal care and labor and delivery.

That sounds so logical, doesn’t it? You might even be thinking, “Of course, that’s what doctors and nurses do all the time.” Unfortunately, that’s not always the case. Often, what happens is a professional comes into an exam room or the delivery room and says something like, “We’re going to schedule your Group B Strep test for your next visit,” or  “We’re going to do a vaginal exam now to see how far you’ve dilated,”  or “We’re going to get your IV started, okay?” Consent is assumed in all the cases, even the last one. There really isn’t an opening left for questions or alternatives. Have you heard this sort of language during your pregnancy or your birth experiences? I know I did, and I just kind of assumed I had no choices or that there were no other options. I certainly didn’t think to myself, “I can refuse this if I want to.” In fact, it wasn’t until I was pregnant with my third child and was seeing a midwife that I realized I had a choice in a lot of routine medical procedures because we were discussing a routine procedure I was not really sure about and she said, “You know you don’t have to do that, right?” and then proceeded to discuss the risks/benefits and the alternate options I had with me. What an eye-opener! I had assumed that all these routines and procedures were just a given during pregnancy and birth. It was very empowering to realize that I did have options, and beyond that, to feel like a full participant in my medical care. The idea of  informed consent is not about denying all interventions all the time, but rather having access to all the information and making an informed choice either way, using that information to make the right choice for you in your specific situation. It’s about being empowered in your care, an active decision maker, rather than a passive participant. So many women who report dissatisfaction with their birthing experiences list feeling like their autonomy was not respected as one of the main causes. The goal of this article is to help empower women and reduce this occurrence.

Disclaimer 1: I am not at all talking about emergency situations here. I am talking about the right to decline routine procedures such as a cervical check if you wanted to, or to request a hep-lock instead of being tied to an IV pole in the case of a normally progressing labor, for example, or the right to ask questions and know your options in the face of interventions that you  may be facing in a non-emergent situation. In a medical emergency where all the minutes and even seconds count, I absolutely advocate relying on the advice and expertise of the doctors and nurses in charge of your care; they want a healthy outcome for you and baby and are using all their expertise and best judgement to achieve that.

Disclaimer 2: The vast majority of doctors and nurses truly want the best care and outcome for their patients. In cases where informed consent is not pursued, I truly believe that it is not usually because the medical staff is trying to bully or control the mother or is pursuing their own convenience. These things have become routine and fairly expected, so I think it is often assumed the mother is in full consent or that if she is not, she would speak up when consent is assumed.  I realize there are cases when medical professionals were in fact not really pursuing the best care for their patients, but those are for the most part the exception rather than the rule.

So now that we’ve looked at informed consent and why it’s important, how do we make sure that’s what is happening in our own medical care and births? First, take a good childbirth education class and/or do your own research and what procedures are routine with your doctor and your place of birth and what common interventions are. Find out the evidence for these procedures and interventions (Evidence Based Birth is a great place to start). Talk to your doctor or midwife about all of these things. Find out what options and alternatives you may have. Talk to your partner as well. It is so much easier to think clearly and make important decisions prenatally, before the intensity of birth hits. Second, consider hiring a doula to support you. She is there to help you find the information and research you need prenatally and to help you create a birth plan or list of what you do and do not want during your birth. She is also there to help you advocate for yourself during labor. Remember, a doula does not make decisions for you or speak to the medical staff on your behalf; rather, she facilitates communication between you and your birth team and can help you ask questions and get the answers you need. And she’s there to support you if birth leads to necessary interventions that you did not want so that even in that case you feel empowered in making the right choices for your situation. Third, ask for a little time. If you need a minute to consider your options or to discuss a procedure with your partner, it is absolutely okay to ask for a few minutes alone to do so.  Unless it is a truly emergent situation, do not feel pressured to make a snap decision on the spot.

And, finally, ask questions of the medical staff. Good, clear communication between everyone on the birth team is key. Do not assume that because you wrote something in your birth plan, everyone is automatically going to know what you do and do not want in each situation. Again, your doula can help you open this conversation, often by asking you questions such as, “Are you comfortable with this procedure? Did you have any questions about that before it’s done?” I love using the BRAIN acronym because it is short and memorable and helps you make sure you are asking all the right questions to get the information you need.


  • What are the benefits of this procedure or intervention? What is the desired goal to be accomplished by pursing it?


  • What are the risks associated with this procedure or intervention? What possible side effects are there for the mother and the baby? What limitations might it impose on mom such as needing to remain in bed, not being able walk, etc.?


  • What other options for treatment are there? Different medicines, non medical options you could try, etc. such as positioning to help get labor going again rather than immediately starting Pitocin.


  • What does your gut feeling say about this procedure? Mothers are gifted with strong instincts, especially when it comes to their bodies and their babies. Consider your intuition. Also consider your wishes for your birth. How does this align with those?


  • What would happen if you simply did nothing in this instance? What is the evidence for doing and not doing something in this case?

Want a free PDF printable of the BRAIN acronym? Click Here!

Once you have gathered your information, be sure that you are very clear in speaking with the staff that you are or are not consenting. State clearly, “I consent.” “I want to proceed with_______.”  On the other hand, clearly state, “I do not consent to that procedure.” Not, “I don’t really want…” “I’d rather not…” “I don’t like…” Again, good, clear communication is key. Be open and plain about what you do and do not consent to, and be sure your partner and/or doula is ready to help you make your voice heard. You cannot be forced into any procedure or intervention against your wishes, nor bullied into not consenting to a procedure you do wish to consent to. (I have seen that happen in cases such as the mother has changed her mind about not having an epidural and others in the room are trying to persuade her not to do it.)

I believe in you and your ability to birth your baby. I believe in your ability to make solid, informed choices for you and your baby. Remember: It is your body and your birth. It is your right to be fully informed about the benefits and risks of every procedure and to make the choices best for your situation and to be fully supported in doing so.



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